2011年1月19日星期三

~信任和欺骗~ 是谁信任了谁?又是谁欺骗了谁?trust and who trust deceive who? Who deceived whom?



是谁信任了谁?又是谁欺骗了谁?这问题在生活上是每个人心中的疑问吧?欺骗后失去了信任…信任了被别人欺骗了…对话里那一句才是真的?还是只不过是善意的谎言还是真正的欺骗?

我们往往分不清楚…可能欺骗你的人不只是别人或是亲人…甚至连自己也欺骗自己…

没有谎言怎么能够维持在工作的地位?没有欺骗怎么会有收入和生意?
没有谎言怎么能够把你挽回呢?没有欺骗也许可以让他/她不会伤到很深吧?…
没有谎言怎么能够让父母不担心?没有欺骗可能父母比我们更难过…
没有谎言怎么能够让你冷静下来不要冲动做事情还有帮你保密呢?没有欺骗可能让他/她知道,自己的会更加心痛…

有的时候自己真的很相信别人说的话,可是人总是说不要太相信人说的话。可是有这么才能够知道那一句是骗人的?
别说自己容易被骗!事实上自己也骗了别人,说了谎话…摸摸自己的良心吧…

对我来说失去信任是我人生最级大的痛苦!!那是我最害怕失去的东西!!
我也是一个很相信别人的人。因为我们相信真诚地去听别人,真心对待别人…大家好好关心对方那也是另一种快乐和幸福…可能你会说我傻了,可是这就是我…

因为每个人都需要一个关心和安慰,他她们不是寂寞的,至少有个听众愿意慢慢聆听他/她们的心声…难道你自己就不需要别人的关怀吗?

有人说:我被骗了…心中很难过…。除了家人谁都不能相信了…
说真的~不管是朋友,感情,还是亲人…对自己本身失去了信任还是欺骗那是非常心痛的!!这种苦…无法形容…

我想说的是可以不要相信别人,相信自己的家人和你自己就好…如果能够的话,最好找到一个能够值得你去信任的还是真正能够聆听你的人。

有的时候谎言是可怕的…有时候它是善意的…有谁愿意被欺骗呢?有谁不能说假话?有谁明明真的真相但愿意欺骗自己一切是美好的?又有谁那么喜欢一直欺骗别人呢?又有谁…连自己也不相信了?…

往往等到真相大白了,结果……(自己心里明白吧==?)

在地球里的我们就要面对和解决我们的问题,我们就站在信任和谎言之间…不知所措…人:说了可能又收不回了,可是又不能不说又不行…

如果是为了对方好,就请坦白说出来。如果为了不让对方伤心担心,就请帮他/她隐瞒或是骗了他/她吧(因为知道有时候是不得已的)。不要造成之间有很多后悔,伤害,遗憾,心酸,心痛,误会…

Who trust who? Who deceived whom? This problem is everyone in their daily lives queries in the mind, right? Deceived and lose trust ... the trust of the deceived by others ... the dialogue is really in that line? Or just a really good lie or cheat?
We often could not tell ... maybe people do not cheat you or a loved one ... but even people themselves cheating yourself ...

Does not lie in how to maintain the status of the work? How would there be no deception of income and business? 
No lie how can you restore it? Maybe you can not deceive him / her will not hurt to deep right?  ...How can parents do not lie do not worry about? Not deceived the parents more than we may feel bad ...How can you not lie Do not get excited to do things to calm down there to help you keep it? Could not deceive him / her know that their will be more heart…
Sometimes people say that they really believe it, but people always say people should not put too much say. But there are so to be able to know that one is a lie? 
Not to mention their own easily deceived! In fact the people themselves deceived, lied to touch their conscience ... it ...
For me lose confidence in the magnitude of my life the pain! ! That is what I am most afraid of losing! ! 

I am also a very trusting person. Because we believe in good faith to listen to others, treat others ... we really take care about each other that is another joy and happiness ... You might say I am silly, but this is me ...
Because everyone needs a care and comfort, they are not lonely he was, at least one audience willing to listen to slow his / her voice ... Do you need someone to care for it?
I want to say is that it can not trust people, trust your family and you like ... If you can, it is best to find a can or you can trust the people who can really listen to you.
If it is good for each other, please tell someone. If the order not to hurt the other party concerned to please help him / her or lied to conceal his / her right (because we know that sometimes the last resort.) Not create a lot between the regret, hurt, regret, sadness, heartache, misunderstanding ...

8 条评论:

  1. 最近怎么?又后悔,又被人骗? 那么感触啊~=)

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  2. 是看见你的blog才写的~习惯了XD

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  3. == 怪不得。看到几句好像很像我写的啦~

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  4. 知道就好~因为看到你这么说,我就写了咯XD加油

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  5. 哈哈 信任是看对方的~自己加油不到XP 谢谢咯~ 可是我没写说谎叻~XD 囧

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  6. 那是我对一些事情的想法啦XD

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  7. 个人觉得有时就算是说实话,会因为环境的影响误会还是会产生的,所以我觉得在选择说实话和谎话之间应该靠自己去审时度势然后在说的时候要拿捏的很准才不会伤到对方。

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  8. 是咯@@要随机应变就是了~人就是这样==……

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